DOWN SYNDROME ASSOCIATION OF NIGERIA

My desire is to have an organization like DSAN one day. Ever since i can remember my dream was to go to naija and build places like The Arc of dallas. We need them, a lot of people deal with developmental disabilities and shouldnt have to deal with it alone or be ashamed of it.
From personal experience I can tell you its a lot to handle, it can be draining emotionally, mentally and physically but it is also very rewarding, i have learnt a lot from my brother (he's a sweety)

Anyway check out goodnaijagirl blog on more info and if you can help out.

DOWN SYNDROME ASSOCIATION OF NIGERIA

life sucks on so many levels....

 

"Your mates have 3/ 4 children by now; you you still dey here dey do old mama youngie for me!"

Mommy why do you always have to shoot from the hip, why cant you bite your tongue, small?
God I wanted to cuss you out so bad this morning!
Why the F*ck cant you leave me alone, CANT i have any PEACE in this house!
You know this is why i HATE coming home!
Because you always have some BS to say to my ass!

AND so what? I know my mates have kids, dammit sixteen year old girls have kids!
Where the f*ck I'm I suppose to get some kids from, Ma? I don't have a husband, you want me to adopt some, or just randomly fuck somebody, is that what you want from me?

Dammit, don't you think I KNOW, I know my mates have kids.
I see it on their facebook every f*ing day. This one is engaged, this one just got married, this one is having a baby shower, that one is having a baby, this one is doing a naming ceremony, this one just had her third baby . I do HAVE eyes ma!

What the hell do you want me to do about it?
Singles meeting at church I went, 30 vulturous looking women and only 10 worwor guys. Naija reunion I went only to have this punk ass JJC with some fake diamonds in his ear tell me "wassup bitch."
Nigga I look like your bitch?
Take professional pictures for you and Auntie Nengie I did!
I mean Ma I'm trying, I don't know what the f*ck you want from me.

I know I'm 26, you tell me EVERY bloody day!
What happened to God's time is the best time Ma?
Oh so this situation is different? How?
It just is? What the hell kind of answer is that.
I swear Ma you are pushing me!

OK so I should go to naija in December?
Fine if it will get you the hell off my back then I will go.
Yes I will be open-minded
But if i end up with a wife beater...AKA Labake hubby, Sisi Stella's hubby, Boma's hubby ..na you know
if i end up with someone wye just wan get citizenship ...AKA Jenifer's hubby.. na you know
if i end up with someone that sends me on shopping trips to Dubai, London, New York ...make we thank Baba God.

Is my smile BIG enough?

Popsie has gone back to his matrimonial home. (yes I've been watching too much naija flicks)

I'm so elated, my brothers have called me like a thousand times to ask if I have heard. Ah ah the man was living with me now, OF COURSE i've heard!

Being the only girl, you know I LOVE my daddy. At 26 I'm still calling him daddy, I'm a daddy's girl all the way, but I'm so glad to see this man go home. Its not been easy.







*sniffs* Can you smell it?
It's freedom!